Sometimes, there’s a big decision in front of you.
And you feel stuck.
Indecisive. Scared to make a move.
That’s not failure.
That’s the first step of landing back into yourself.
When you don’t know what to do — don’t do.
Think: safety first.
Warmth. Coziness. The kind of quiet contentment that doesn’t chase anything.
Like a cat behind a window.
She’s not fretting.
She’s not chasing after every car or bird or dog — just because others are.
She’s safe. She knows she belongs right where she is.
That’s the first offering:
Give your nervous system a break.
A break from the pros and cons, the endless weighing, the imagined disasters.
Take that break.
Do nothing — but treat it like a gift.
And while you rest, start to look for tiny signs of safety inside your body.
You don’t need to move fast. Or be brave. Or have an answer.
Maybe one small step toward something that feels right.
Or maybe something completely unrelated — just to show your body that it’s safe now.
Safe not to rush.
Not to compete.
Not to measure or perform.
Those quiet, unproductive moments?
They’re like mystery gifts under a tree.
You don’t know what’s inside yet.
You just have to let them ripen.
Or wait for the right time to peek in.
